Grasping Adulthood

Aug 27

What Military Children Won’t Tell You about Being Asked, “Where Are You From" -

"I hate that question. I never know if they want me to tell them where I am living currently, where I consider home right now, where I have lived the longest, or where I was born. And that’s a problem because they are all different answers."

The above quote is pretty spot on. What’s interesting about living in the bay area is that there are generally a lot of transplants. But most transplants still have a simple enough answer to the “Where are you from” question.

Lately I’ve seen a lot of backlash about transplants “taking over the city” and what not. People rep the bay pretty hard and that’s fine. I rep the bay also. What I have a problem with is people who are like “I’m more SF/bay area than you because I’m actually from here.”

On the flight back from EDC last June, I overheard a drunk guy babble on and on about how the tech industry is ruining San Francisco because it’s attracting all these non-San Franciscans to the city and how SF is losing it’s flavor and originality because of it.

I think it’s pretty hypocritical of “original San Franciscans” (or anyone born in a major city) to think they’re more superior than others just because they had the privilege of growing up here. You’re supposed to be more open and accepting to others, right?

I think it’s actually a shame that most people I meet have only lived in one place their whole life. I may have moved around a lot and lost touch with a lot of friends and have spent years not being around family members, but I still wouldn’t trade it for anything in the world. I have more experiences in my 28 years of life than some people have in a whole life time. I don’t need to be “from” anywhere. I love being “from” everywhere.

Aug 25

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Aug 24

humansofnewyork:

"I’d been studying German for a few years, and I met this woman who gave me the opportunity to go to Germany for a full year. The brochure looked very nice. The program included hikes, volunteer work, singing in church. It was very expensive, but my family thought it would be a great experience for me, so all my relatives chipped in to pay the program fee. I was so excited for months. On the day that I was supposed to leave, I went to the airport, and waited in line to check my baggage. When I got to the front of the line, they told me that my ticket was a forgery. When I tried to call the woman’s phone, it had been disconnected." (Nairobi, Kenya)

Fuck, that is crazy and is just awful that it had to happen.

humansofnewyork:

"I’d been studying German for a few years, and I met this woman who gave me the opportunity to go to Germany for a full year. The brochure looked very nice. The program included hikes, volunteer work, singing in church. It was very expensive, but my family thought it would be a great experience for me, so all my relatives chipped in to pay the program fee. I was so excited for months. On the day that I was supposed to leave, I went to the airport, and waited in line to check my baggage. When I got to the front of the line, they told me that my ticket was a forgery. When I tried to call the woman’s phone, it had been disconnected." 

(Nairobi, Kenya)

Fuck, that is crazy and is just awful that it had to happen.

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Aug 18

The Internet Has Gone Corgi Crazy

ice-kt:

guy:

theblogforadog:

so here’s some weird Corgi mixes

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Corgi/Chihuahua

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Corgi/Chow

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Corgi/Dachshund

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Corgi/Dalmatian

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Corgi/English Bulldog 

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Corgi/German Shepherd

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Corgi/Golden Retriever 

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Corgi/Husky

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Corgi/Jack Russell 

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Corgi/Papillon 

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Corgi/Toy Poodle

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Corgi/Sheltie

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Corgi/Shiba Inu

I’M FREAKIN OUT GUYS 

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“Sometimes I wish I was 29 with my life figured out & sometimes I wish I was 5 with my whole life ahead of me and not a care in the world” — Reyna Biddy (via halluzinogen)

News flash, kids: you’re not gonna have your life figured out at 29.

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Aug 15

henriqueadam:

if i hate your team, i hate your team.

dont try and say, “you’re just jealous that we have some of the best players in the league.” i dont care and im not jealous.

i just hate your team.

(Source: ericgelinas, via luxury--problem)

Aug 12

backstreetboyscruise:

#BSBCruise2014 
backstreetboyscruise.com

I’m so down for that beard.

backstreetboyscruise:

#BSBCruise2014 
backstreetboyscruise.com

I’m so down for that beard.

Aug 11

New York Giants QB Eli Manning and Denver Broncos Peyton Manning's DirecTV music video - NFL Videos -

What the fuck did I just watch.
Eli Manning was hella down for this.
And you know what, so was I.